Pinky Nelson ’72
Student and Friend
My freshman year I played on the baseball team under coach Bill Arce. I had a good year, played on the varsity and spent the summer in Holland with a team of players from around the LA area assembled and coached by Arce. I love baseball so it was a wrenching decision to quit the team after being selected for the Bates program. Coach Arce was totally understanding that two extracurricular activities would be too much for a Harvey Mudd student and we stayed friends for the rest of my HMC time. Many years later I was in Claremont for some event or other and arranged to visit Iris. When I got to her home, I was surprised to find Bill Arce there too, and we had a wonderful visit. I don’t know if I’d said much at the time about the loss that I felt giving up baseball, but Iris knew, and this was her way of acknowledging it all these years later. Of course, the way things turned out, it was the right decision. Without Bates my career path would have been completely different. The impact of the Critchells on my life has been profound. There are so many memorable stories about Iris: her kindness, zest for life, total support for all of us as pilots and young people and beyond, and her insistence on excellence in the air and on the ground. What a life she led!
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